Successful people build each other up, they motivate, inspire and push each other. Unsuccessful people just hate, blame and complain.    Flowers only bloom when they are ready. People are the same way. You cannot rush or force them open, just because you think it's time. Be patient. - Timber Hawkeye    We can't solve problems by using the same kind of thinking we used when we created them. - Albert Einstein    Success is to be measured, not so much by the position that one has reached in life, as by the obstacles that one has overcome while trying to succeed. - Bookert T. Washington    Be solution driven. Treat the disease, not the symptoms by targeting the source of the problem or issue.    In the confrontation between the stream and the rock, the stream always wins... not through strength, but through persistence. - Buddha    Are you interested in changing, or are you committed to change?

Emotions & Feelings


You are afraid that you will hurt yourself, someone else, have a nervous breakdown or experience burnout.

Being anxious, fearful, tense, shy, up tight or restless sleeping patterns.

Being overwhelmed, confused, bewildered, helpless, lost or caught up in a Newton’s Cradle Trap.

Suffering from depression, loneliness, sadness, guilt or feeling a failure.

Experience feelings of resentment, anger, distrust, feelings of betrayal or wanting to harm someone.

Experience unexplained changes in feelings, unexpected mood swings of highs and lows, or emotional instability.

Often dealing with physical ailments such as aches and pains, tiredness or poor appetite.

You don’t give a damn, apathy and a feeling that nothing matters.

You are overly eager to please, an indecisive person or obedient follower.

Guiding questions…

  • When did you experience the feeling associated with the problem?
  • Why have the feelings continued?
  • Are the feelings or emotions related directly/indirectly to particular actions?
  • Is this emotion/feeling generally applicable, or only in specific circumstances?
  • What type of negative influences do the feelings have on you?
  • Any positive impact?
  • What kinds of unwanted feelings are involved? (e.g. fears, anxiety, sadness & self-criticism, anger & prejudice, dependency & passivity, frustration, confusion, …etc.)
  • How may the feelings be eliminated? Can the feeling be eliminated?